Mutual Masturbation for Lesbians

The feeling is mutual

Whether it’s soft and romantic sensual stroking with intense eye contact or hot and heavy fervent finger-popping in the back of a steamy ’88 hatchback, mutual masturbation for lesbians is embedded in our sexual culture. For some couples, it’s the runway to penetrative sex. Some may fly through this moment, anxious to take off. Others linger in the moment, waiting in the wings. For those that REALLY know what’s up, mutual masturbation IS the moment. When you know what you’re doing, mutual masturbation for lesbians is more than a means to a climactic end. 

Why is it important?

Stress relief is one of the best side effects of a come well done, and mutual masturbation for lesbians takes this to crescendos. Orgasms release endorphins: feel-good chemicals that are legit mood boosters. Another reason why lesbians engage in mutual masturbation is to learn their partner. Mutual masturbation allows for a deep intimacy that simply does not come from sex alone. Consider the moments after sex, how connected you feel to your partner. Imagine if that feeling was on the way up to a mutual orgasm, as opposed to only after. You aren’t just connecting with them, you are also learning the physicality of their body, how they respond to certain touches, and what they like and dislike. The most fun reason mutual masturbation for lesbians gets a star rating is that it is a thrilling way to explore new toys together.

Mutual masturbation for lesbians can mean one of two things. Masturbation in front of each other (this can happen in person or via video or phone call) or stimulating each other’s erogenous zones. Since we have several (no joke - there are 25-31 erogenous zones on the lesbian body) there are countless ways to stimulate each other and most of these don’t require any penetration. 

Preparing the stage

Setting the mood is essential to any sexual contact. This is most easily achieved through mental stimulation. Send a text, or make a flirty comment on your way out the door to work. Build momentum throughout the day to set expectations. From there, create a physical environment that lets your partner know that you plan on bringing the heat. Candles, nice sheets, incense, music, low lights, snacks, and a libation or two get the vibes going for mutual masturbation for lesbians. Make sure to get any grooming out the way. Clean up your nails and cuticles, removing any rings that could cause problems. Prepare any barrier protection you may need, and double-check that you have enough lube for your session. Have your toys cleaned and laid out, along with several towels. You’re definitely going to need those if things go well. 

Ready for takeoff

Start by touching yourself where you want to touch your partner. Alternatively, try touching yourself how you want your partner to touch you. Checking for consent along the way, explore each other’s erogenous zones. Mutual masturbation for lesbians can mean several touching combinations. Mouths, fingers, toys can stimulate any erogenous zone or genitalia. Even better, once aroused, they can really get the juices flowing. Think mouth-to-mouth kissing, fingers tracing palms of hands, nipple to nipple touching.

Getting some external assistance

Adding a toy to the scintillation seems almost unfair. Or maybe it’s a bit of gracious feel-good as a thank you for enduring the daily stress that comes with having a lesbian body. All toys are not created equal, as they all have their strengths and not-so-desirable features, but the overall champion of sex toys for mutual masturbation for lesbians is the Together Couples Vibrator mutual masturbator vibrating sex toy. This completely waterproof vibe has three motors and three speeds that offer ascending intensity from low to medium to high. Its ergonomic shape is designed for couples but is fine for solo rounds. It has two rabbits specifically positioned for clitoral or perineal stimulation. It’s mirror image shape encourages and enables eye-to-eye contact during mutual masturbation for lesbians but the most stunning feature is the Echo Function. The Echo Function allows you to feel changes in pressure from your partner and vice versa. When your partner is aroused and starts to pulsate, your end of the Together Couples Vibrator will also start to mirror their pulsation. As your partner gets to the edge, your end of the toy will intensify to match their vibrations. And vice versa.

The next time you and your partner decide to engage in mutual masturbation for lesbians, consider setting your intentions for your play session. Are you getting to know one another, connecting on a deeper level? Are you exploring your bodies and learning your kinks? Are you getting your rocks off to relieve some stress? Maybe you just want to blow your load a quite a few times. Understanding your “why” will let you know exactly how to get your partner to the edge and the Together Couples’ Vibrator will push them over. Over and over again.