Attachments & Accessories

What Are Sex Toy Attachments and Accessories?

Attachments and accessories are the pieces that complete your setup - the add-ons, upgrades, and essentials that sit alongside your core toys and make everything work the way it should.

That might mean a harness attachment that gives you a more secure, comfortable fit. It might mean a dildo attachment sized and shaped specifically for the kind of penetration you actually want. Or it might mean the care essentials, cleaners, and extras that keep your toys in peak condition between sessions.

Think of this category as your toolkit. The toys get the attention, but the accessories make them sing.

For queer couples especially, the right strap-on accessories can completely change how penetrative sex feels - for both the wearer and the receiver. Getting the attachment right means better movement, better sensation, and way less fiddling around when you'd rather be doing anything else.

Kink accessories open up a different kind of play: restraint, sensation, control, surrender. When those elements are built into a setup designed for queer bodies rather than adapted from straight-couple gear, the difference is real and immediate.

Whatever you're looking to add, this is where to start.

Find the Right Toy Accessories

Find the perfect addition to your setup with our range:

• Harness Attachments - Compatible add-ons that improve fit, stability, and comfort during strap-on play. Better attachment means better movement for both of you.
• Dildo Attachments - Shaped for real sensation, sized for real bodies. Swap, upgrade, or try something new without replacing your entire harness.
• Kink Accessories - Restraints, sensation toys, and control-focused extras designed for negotiated, consent-forward queer play.
• Toy Care Essentials - Cleaners and storage solutions that protect your investment and keep every session as safe as it is pleasurable.
• Positioning Accessories - Supports and aids that make certain positions easier, more comfortable, and a lot more sustainable.
• Lubricant Accessories - Applicators and dispensers that keep lube exactly where you need it, exactly when you need it.

A Note on Compatibility

Not every attachment works with every toy or harness - and guessing wrong is frustrating. Check compatibility before you buy, and when in doubt, start from the Together Vibes full range to find accessories designed to work together from the ground up.

Compatibility basics that matter: medical-grade silicone accessories pair best with water-based lubricants unless the product guidance says otherwise. For kink accessories with metal components, check care instructions before your first wash - most are straightforward, but a few have specific needs worth knowing about upfront.

The right setup takes a little thought. The payoff is sex that works exactly the way you imagined it.