Together Dildos & Strap-Ons

Strap-On Sex Designed for Queer Couples

For too long, strap-on gear was designed for straight couples and repurposed - badly - for everyone else. Together Vibes started somewhere different: what does strap-on sex actually feel like for lesbian and queer couples, and how do we build around that?

The answer is mutual pleasure. A wearer who only feels pressure through a harness isn't getting what they deserve. Our collection includes strapless options that stimulate the wearer internally while the receiver feels everything they need, plus a full range of harness-compatible dildos in body-safe silicone that pair cleanly with any adjustable harness setup.

Whether you're exploring strap-on sex for the first time or you know exactly what shape and girth works for you, fit matters more than size - for both the dildo and the harness. Start smaller than your confidence insists, communicate with your partner about sensation and pressure, and use plenty of water-based lube every single time.

Every dildo in our range is made from phthalate-free, medical-grade silicone. No shortcuts on materials, no guesswork on safety. Soft, body-warm, easy to clean, and built to feel exactly as good as it looks. For a different sensation entirely, our glass dildos offer firm, weighted pressure and temperature play that silicone simply can't replicate.

Find the Perfect Strap-On Setup

Find your fit with our range of strap-on dildos and accessories:

• Strapless Strap-Ons - No harness required. The wearer's end sits internally for hands-free stimulation while the other end penetrates your partner. Mutual pleasure, no interruptions, no straps digging in.
• Harness-Compatible Dildos - Pairs with any O-ring harness for a secure, customizable fit. Available in a range of lengths and girths to match what you and your partner actually want.
• Glass Dildos - Smooth, firm, and beautifully weighted. Temperature-responsive and intense, these deliver a sensation nothing else comes close to.
• Dual-End Dildos - Face-to-face penetration without a harness. Both partners feel everything at once, making "taking turns" feel like a very outdated concept.
• Vibrating Dildos - Add vibration to penetration. Customizable intensity means the receiver gets exactly the stimulation they want, and some designs buzz for the wearer too.
• Thrusting Dildos - Built-in thrusting motion so neither of you has to work as hard. You focus on each other; the toy handles the rhythm.
• Harness Sets - Dildo and harness matched and sized for queer bodies. Everything you need in one place.

Making It Work for Both of You

The best strap-on sex starts with a conversation before anyone's clothes come off. Talk about who's wearing, who's receiving, what pressure feels good, and what's off the table. Communication isn't just good practice - it makes the sex significantly hotter.

For new wearers, an adjustable harness changes everything. One that shifts mid-session is a distraction; one that fits snugly and stays put lets you focus on your partner instead of your gear.

Always use water-based lube with silicone toys - silicone lubricant can degrade silicone materials over time. Use it generously, reapply when things slow down, and don't let friction become the thing you're thinking about.

Curious about using your Together toys for anal play? Our guide to using the Together Couples' Vibrator for anal play covers exactly what you need to know.