Anal Toys

Anal Play, on Your Terms

Anal toys work for every body - and every kind of queer intimacy. Whether you're curious and just starting out or you've been exploring for years, the right toy makes all the difference. Pressure, fullness, vibration, or that slow, teasing build you create together with a partner - anal stimulation offers sensations you genuinely can't get any other way.

For lesbian and queer couples, anal play can be a beautiful extension of partnered sex: think strap-on play, hands-free stimulation during penetration, or giving your partner something to feel while your attention is elsewhere. It works just as well solo, and there's no hierarchy between the two. Read our guide on using the Together Couples' Vibrator for anal play if you want ideas for weaving anal toys into partnered pleasure.

One rule applies across the board: anything inserted anally needs a flared base or external handle. No exceptions. Beyond that, start smaller than you think you need to, use generous amounts of water-based lube, and let sensation be your guide.

Medical-grade silicone is the easiest material to begin with - soft, flexible, and body-safe. Glass and stainless steel offer firmer, smoother pressure with satisfying weight. Vibrating options add a buzzing intensity that's hard to describe and harder to forget.

Find the Right Anal Toy

Find the perfect fit with our range:

• Butt Plugs - tapered for easy insertion, designed to sit comfortably in place. Available in silicone, glass, and stainless steel, from beginner slim to fuller, weighted designs.
• Anal Training Kits - progress at your own pace with a set of graduated sizes. Our anal training kits take the guesswork out of building up gradually.
• Vibrating Anal Toys - add deep, pulsing sensation to anal play with motors designed for internal pleasure.
• Remote Control Anal Toys - hand the controls to your partner. These are made for connected play, building anticipation one vibration at a time.
• Anal Beads - the rhythmic pull on removal creates a distinctive sensation that many people find intensely pleasurable, especially close to orgasm.
• Prostate Massagers - curved specifically to reach the prostate, these work beautifully for trans-masculine folks and anyone with a prostate who wants targeted internal stimulation.

Safety, Cleaning, and Lube

A few non-negotiables for anal play. Always use a flared-base toy. Always use lube - the anus doesn't self-lubricate, and friction isn't fun. Water-based lubricant is safe with every material in this collection.

Clean your toys before and after every use with warm water and a body-safe toy cleaner. For full care guidance, our how to clean and maintain your Together toy guide covers everything you need to know. If you're sharing toys with a partner, use a fresh condom for each person or clean thoroughly between uses.

Curious how anal play fits into a broader night? Check out our sex toys collection for everything else worth adding to the mix.