Lubes & Essentials

Lube Belongs in Every Queer Sex Kit

Lube isn't optional. It reduces friction, increases sensation, and makes every kind of sex more comfortable and more pleasurable. For queer women and vulva-having folks especially, natural lubrication varies day to day - stress, hormones, medication, and cycle stage all affect it. Having the right intimate lubricant on hand means you're never at the mercy of timing.

The most important thing to get right is compatibility. Water-based lubricants are the most versatile option. They work with every toy material, including silicone, and they clean up easily. Most queer sex kits should have a water-based lube as the go-to.

Oil-based lubricants tend to last longer and feel more luxurious, but they degrade silicone toys and condoms - so they're best reserved for skin-to-skin play or toys made from glass, stainless steel, or hard plastic.

If vaginal comfort or sensitivity is part of your picture, look for formulas that are pH-matched to vaginal tissue. These are gentler, less likely to disrupt your natural balance, and a smart choice for everyday intimate use.

Toy care rounds out the essentials. Cleaning your toys before and after every session protects you and extends the life of your gear. A dedicated toy cleaner does this more effectively than soap alone, and won't degrade delicate materials over time.

Browse our full range of all products to pair your lubes with the right toys.

Find the Right Essentials for Your Play

Find what you need with our range of lubricants and care products:

• Water-Based Lubricants - Safe with silicone toys and harnesses. Easy to reapply and clean up without residue. The most versatile lube in any kit.
• Oil-Based Lubricants - Longer-lasting and deeply conditioning for skin-to-skin play. Not suitable for use with silicone toys or latex condoms.
• pH-Balanced Intimate Lubricants - Formulated to match vaginal pH. Gentler for sensitive bodies, and a better choice for regular use or anyone prone to irritation.
• Toy Cleaners - Spray-on or foam formulas that remove bacteria and body fluids without damaging silicone, glass, or other toy materials.
• Toy Care Accessories - Storage pouches, cleaning cloths, and protective bags that keep your toys hygienic and scratch-free between sessions.

How to Look After Your Toys and Your Body

These practices protect both gear and you:

Match your lube to your toy. If your toy is silicone - which most quality sex toys are - use water-based lube only. Silicone-based lubes can break down the surface of silicone toys over time, making them harder to clean and potentially irritating to skin.

Apply more than you think you need. Friction is the enemy of comfort. Reapply during play whenever things start to feel dry. There's no such thing as too much lube.

Clean your toys every time. Spray with toy cleaner, let it sit for 30 seconds, then rinse or wipe depending on the product instructions. Dry completely before storing.

If you're unsure about your toy's materials or care instructions, check the Warranty Information page for product-specific guidance.