Strap-Ons & Harnesses

What Makes a Great Strap-On Setup

Strap-on play is one of the most intimate and versatile forms of queer sex. The right harness and dildo combination can completely transform the experience - and getting the fit right matters more than anything else.

Harnesses come in two main styles. Jock strap harnesses are adjustable, minimalist, and stay firmly in place during active sex - everything positioned exactly where you need it, without getting in the way. Boxer brief harnesses offer more coverage and feel closer to underwear, which many wearers find more comfortable for longer sessions and easier to move in naturally.

Both styles use an O-ring to hold the dildo in place. Elastic O-rings flex to fit a range of dildo sizes. Fixed O-rings give a firmer, more rigid hold but require a closer size match. Check the O-ring diameter before buying a dildo separately - or grab a strap-on kit that pairs a compatible harness and dildo together from the start.

Don't want a harness at all? Strapless designs sit inside the wearer's body, so both partners feel stimulation at the same time - no straps, no interruptions, nothing to adjust mid-moment.

Every harness and dildo in our range is designed to fit queer bodies of all shapes, sizes, and genders. Whether you wear, receive, switch, or all three - there's a setup here.

Explore the Full Range

Our strap-on and harness range covers every setup:

• Jock Strap Harnesses - Adjustable straps, minimal coverage, maximum security. The go-to for active, high-intensity sex.
• Boxer Brief Harnesses - More coverage with a comfortable, underwear-like feel. Built for extended wear and easy movement.
• Strapless Strap-Ons - No harness required. The wearer's body holds the toy in place while both partners feel simultaneous stimulation.
• Strap-On Kits - Harness and dildo bundled together for a guaranteed compatible pairing. The simplest starting point for beginners.
• Harness-Compatible Dildos - Body-safe silicone dildos sized and shaped to work with our harness range. Available in a variety of lengths, girths, and textures.

Caring for Your Harness

A good harness is an investment - treat it well and it lasts.

Wash fabric harnesses after each use in a mesh laundry bag, or hand wash in warm water with mild soap. Air dry completely before storing. Silicone dildos clean easily with warm water and a toy-safe cleaner. Fully waterproof designs can be submerged.

When sharing with more than one partner, use a fresh condom on the dildo or clean it thoroughly between partners. Never move a toy from the anus to the vagina without washing it first.

All Together Vibes products come with warranty coverage - because quality you can count on matters as much as pleasure.