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Dildos

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Designed for how you actually have sex, not how mainstream sex shops imagine you do. Our dildos span body-safe silicone in every size, smooth weighted glass dildos, and strap-on styles built for lesbian and queer couples who want something shaped for real anatomy and real pleasure. Beginners welcome. Experienced users, you'll find plenty here too. Solo, partnered, face-to-face, or wherever the mood takes you.


Dildos Designed from Queer Experience

Most dildos on the market were designed with straight couples in mind, or worse, with male fantasies about lesbian sex. Together Vibes exists because that's not good enough.

Dildos built from queer experience feel different. They're shaped for how vulva-owning bodies actually respond, sized to work beautifully with harnesses, and made from materials that feel extraordinary against every kind of skin. The difference is immediate and obvious.

Silicone dildos are the most versatile starting point. Soft enough to feel natural, firm enough to deliver real pressure, and available in sizes from gentle beginner profiles to something more ambitious. If you're drawn to heavier, more precise sensations, glass dildos offer a smooth, weighty firmness that responds to temperature. Run them under warm or cool water before play and the sensation shifts completely.

For partnered pleasure, a well-chosen strap-on dildo changes everything. Paired with the right harness, it frees your hands, lets you set your own rhythm, and keeps you right where you want to be, face-to-face with your partner, watching every gasp and shiver.

All our dildos meet body-safe, phthalate-free standards without compromise.

Find the Perfect Dildo

Our dildos span several core types, each designed for specific sensations and experiences:

  • Silicone Dildos - Soft, flexible, and non-porous. The most accessible option for beginners and experienced users alike, in a range of sizes and textures that warm naturally to your body.
  • Glass Dildos - Firm, smooth, and temperature-responsive. Perfect for anyone who loves deep, precise internal pressure and a sensation that silicone simply can't replicate.
  • Strap-On Dildos - Shaped for harness compatibility and designed with the wearer's comfort in mind just as much as the receiver's pleasure.
  • Double-Ended Dildos - Built for mutual penetration and that irresistible face-to-face connection. Both of you feel everything, simultaneously.
  • Realistic Dildos - Textured, lifelike shapes that deliver targeted internal stimulation with every movement.
  • Beginner Dildos - Slimmer profiles and gentler curves for anyone starting their exploration with confidence and zero performance pressure.

Choosing the Right Size and Material

Sizing matters more than most people admit. Start with a diameter that feels genuinely comfortable, not aspirational. You can always explore more fullness later, and pleasure is always the point.

Material shapes the entire experience. Silicone warms to your body, has a little natural give, and pairs with water-based lubricant. Glass stays firm, never flexes, and works with any lubricant. Both are non-porous and easy to clean between uses.

Whatever you choose from Together Vibes, it meets rigorous material standards without exception.

And always use lubricant. Every time. The right lube reduces friction, intensifies sensation, and makes everything feel smoother for both of you.

Frequently Asked Questions About Dildos

What dildo size should I start with?

Start smaller than your instinct suggests, especially if you're newer to penetration. A slimmer diameter gives your body time to adjust and lets you build sensation at your own pace. Insertable length matters too - aim for something that feels satisfying without forcing depth you're not ready for. There's no prize for going bigger faster. Pleasure is the whole point.

What's the difference between silicone and glass dildos?

Silicone is flexible, warms quickly to body temperature, and has a soft feel that many people find more natural for beginners. Glass dildos are completely rigid, heavier, and temperature-responsive - heat them or cool them before play for a sensation that shifts the whole experience. Both are non-porous and easy to clean. The choice comes down to whether you prefer gentle give or firm, precise pressure.

Can I use a dildo with a strap-on harness?

Yes - but not every dildo is harness-compatible. Look for strap-on dildos with a flared base designed to sit securely in a harness O-ring. A properly flared base keeps the dildo stable during use, so your movement translates directly into sensation for your partner rather than fighting with shifting equipment. If you're buying both a dildo and a harness, check that the base diameter matches the O-ring size.

What lubricant should I use with a dildo?

Water-based lubricant is the safest, most versatile choice and works with every dildo material. If you're using a silicone dildo, stick to water-based lube - silicone-based lubricants can degrade silicone toys over time. Glass dildos are compatible with any lubricant type, including silicone-based and oil-based formulas. When in doubt, water-based is always the right call.

How do I clean and store my dildo?

Wash your dildo with warm water and a gentle toy cleaner before and after every use. Non-porous materials like silicone and glass don't harbor bacteria when cleaned properly, but consistency matters. Dry thoroughly before storing - moisture trapped in a drawer or bag creates problems. Keep your dildo in a soft pouch or separate storage away from other toys. If you're sharing between partners, use a fresh condom or clean thoroughly between bodies.